Prayer Makes Perfect

Ok. Ok. I want to be vulnerable with you today. Sometimes I feel like a slacker. But that’s all the pity I will give myself. It’s time to get to work. Pull yourself up by your bootstraps baby! No more excuses! Now, GO! Love healing hearts, Shirah Chante PS – Do you believe in prayer? Join “Woman Pray” Prayer Partnership and get your prayers answered! Click here to j...
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Jeopardy

Jeopardy. What do you think of when you hear that word? Jeopardy the popular game show with Alex Trebek. The song “Our love’s in jeapordy, baby, Oooh, ooh, ooh, ooooh." That’s about all that comes to mind on first thought. On second thought, jeopardy is crucial, vital to the making or breaking of any relationship. Jeopardy is risk-taking at its best. Jeopardy is the fr...
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Let God Do It

I tried and tried and tried to tell him, to change him, to save him… -But he wouldn’t listen. Sometimes you just have to let God do it. Jesus is the Savior. Only Love can change the heart. So Let Love Rule as Lenny Kravitz sings. Let go. Let God do it! Love healing hearts, Shirah Chante PS – Do you believe Love is strong enough to change him? Leave a comment below. ...
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What I Learned from My Dad

When I was leaving Los Angeles to move back to Houston after a devastating end to a horrible relationship, my Dad told me, “You need to find a good black man.”  I thought, “A good black man. Huh, why does he have to be black?” I am a black woman, but I have never discriminated in who I dated. I’ve dated Black, White, Latino, Persian, Arab, and African. Up until that point in ...
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How a Husband Should Treat His Wife

15 Ways a Man Can Show His Wife Love Have you heard of Ezekiel bread? You know that bread they make with lentils, spelt, barley and other healthy grains. I love that bread. I have some in my refrigerator right now. Well, Ezekiel was the prophet in the Holy Bible that God told to bake that bread. Can you believe God commanded him to eat a loaf of that bread everyday for a whole...
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Perfection Has It’s Limits

I have always been a perfectionist. I strive to do my best in whatever I do. When I don’t, I feel like a failure because I know I can do better. Yep, I am pretty hard on myself.  When I got married, I had to let a lot of my perfectionist tendencies go, or at least I tried to. Not only did I have to uphold my strong ideals, but now it was my responsibility to hold my husband to...
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Being the Bigger Person

I thought I was better than that. Really? How could I do that?!!! How could I do the very thing that I hate so much? It doesn’t make sense. It’s fruitless. It’s insanity. Not to mention self-sabotage. You’re probably wondering, “What it is it already?” Okaaaay…..but I’m not proud of it. I gave my husband conditional love. The kind of love that definitely doesn’t last. You...
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