How a Husband Should Treat His Wife

15 Ways a Man Can Show His Wife Love

Have you heard of Ezekiel bread? You know that bread they make with lentils, spelt, barley and other healthy grains. I love that bread. I have some in my refrigerator right now. Well, Ezekiel was the prophet in the Holy Bible that God told to bake that bread. Can you believe God commanded him to eat a loaf of that bread everyday for a whole year and nothing else? What was God thinking? Doesn’t he know we like variety. That’s a whole different story, but today I want to talk to you about the mighty revelation God gave Ezekiel for his obedience to change his diet.

I’ve been studying the bible since I was a little girl. I like to read the bible every morning to give me some direction for my day. It’s part of my continued study in relationships so that I can be the best person I can be and help you be the best person you can be. 

This morning I read chapter 16 of the book of Ezekiel in the bible. I soon came upon a passage of scripture that stood out to me. It was from Ezekiel 16:7-14. I came up with a list of things God did for his wife that is an excellent model for all husbands everywhere. A good wife will love you Click To Tweet

For Husbands: A good wife will love you for implementing all or some of the 15 very valuable items on this cheat sheet and treasure you forever. You’re probably already doing some of them, so good for you. Get started already. Download the checklist below.

For Wives: Download this checklist and read all the way through it. Notice and even mark with a pen all of the things on the list that your husband is already doing. Let’s start out positive! Be thankful for the things your husband does for you naturally over and over again. Even if he only did something once or twice, still be grateful for him.

Now, concerning the things on this checklist that he’s not doing, please don’t go to him and say, “Hey, why don’t you do this for me or why don’t you do that for me?” You will only make him feel inadequate or drive him away. I suggest you humble yourself and pray for him. Ask God to put a heart in your husband that is like God’s heart. Remember, the 15 items listed on this checklist are what God Almighty does for his wife Israel. Your husband is not God, but you can ask God to make your husband more like Him and see what happens. Ask and you shall receive!

 Download 15 Ways A Husband Can Show Love to His Wife

Please share this checklist with your friends, and let’s create a culture of marriage with husbands fulfilling their kingly role of loving their wives. Wives, you must also respect your husbands. Don’t worry, I’ll give you tips to help you in that area soon. I’ll leave you with a five lines from my poem Witness in my poetry book  Jaundiced View to remind you of why you wanted this man in your life in the first place, whether or not he gives you love by doing 1 or all of the 15 Ways a Man Can Show Love to His Wife.

I need a witness, To keep me company, To hold me while I’m sleeping, To love me while I’m dreaming, To move me to fertility.

Husband, what is one thing you do to show your wife love everyday? Wife, what does your husband do that lets you know he truly loves you? Leave your comment below.

Love healing hearts, Shirah Chante

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