Let’s talk about what it means to truly love again, on this Good Friday, the day of the Passion of Christ. Jesus reminded us that the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak in Matthew 26:41. It’s a good reminder that even in love, we face challenges.
So, let’s start from the top. According to Apostle Paul, found in 1 Corinthians 7:28, when we choose to marry or enter a relationship, we start a journey that comes with “troubles in the flesh.” And today, I want to guide you through understanding this journey with some practical advice.
First and foremost, it’s crucial to remember the foundation of any successful relationship: love. Love God. Love you. Love people. When you truly love yourself, not in a self-absorbed way, but recognizing your worth as a creation made in God’s image, you’re better equipped to pour love into others. That’s your stepping stone to healthier relationships.
Paul’s advice is clear. In marriages or love commitments, there are earthly troubles. When you’re single, your focus can be entirely on your spiritual growth. But marriage diverts attention toward your partner. This doesn’t diminish your spiritual journey but adds another layer. If you’re a couple equally yoked in faith, dual devotion can fortify your relationship.
Today, as we commemorate Good Friday, remember that Jesus Himself acknowledged the tension between spirit and flesh. He said, “The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.” It’s a gentle nudge for us to rely on spiritual strength, especially when worldly circumstances test our love and patience.
Marriage or committed relationships are honorable at their core. But, let’s be honest, these are hard times. There’s global unrest, emotional strain, and societal pressure. Jesus foresaw these trials, which he warns about in Matthew 24. Amidst these challenges, we must lean on our faith in God.
Here’s my gift to you, a Relationship Rescue Plan. This tool will help you tune into the Holy Spirit’s guidance, even when life’s storms try to throw you off. Knowing how to listen and act will make even the toughest moments more manageable. That inner dialogue with the Holy Spirit is your compass. Following the Holy Spirit’s guidance will keep you safe. Until next time, remember to love God, love you, and love people.
God bless, Shirah Chante, Relationship Artist
