When the Holidays Hurt More Than They Heal

I don’t know exactly what you’re going through right now, but I do know this…

When your heart is breaking, the holidays make it worse.

Because this is the season when you’re supposed to smile.
To decorate. To laugh. To cook. To be joyful.

But what do you do when your joy feels buried beneath the pain?

Maybe you’re a single mom trying to make a relationship work—one that started with so much hope… but now it’s mostly confusion, arguments, and silent treatment.

Or maybe you’re married, sleeping next to someone every night… yet feeling more alone than ever. The love feels cold. The connection feels gone. And you’re left wondering:

“God… where are You in all of this?”

Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.

Hebrews 13:5

Yes, I know you want the perfect relationship; well, so do I.

I’ve been there. I know what it’s like to pretend everything’s okay…
When deep down, you feel like you’re falling apart.

You smile for the kids. You hold your tongue.
You pray before you sleep, but your soul still aches when you wake up.

And during the holidays—it hurts extra hard. Because all you want is peace… love… answers.

You just want someone to say:
“I see you. I hear you. You’re not crazy. And you’re not alone.”

So let me be the one to say it now:

You’re not alone. And this pain you’re carrying? God can use it.

There is a way to heal… a way to rebuild… a way to love again—but it starts with allowing yourself to be seen and guided.

That’s why I created something special for you this weekend:

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